Afghan Brides Face Death if They Fail Virginity Tests
In Afghanistan, women are expected to be virgins on their wedding night. If they cannot prove their intact hymen, brides face lashings or even death.
A woman in Afghanistan recently told Radio Free Europe/Radio Liberty’s Radio Free Afghanistan that “in some areas of the country” the woman’s in-laws check her sheets for bloodstains after the wedding night. If the sheets lack blood, the in-laws can “demand that their ‘damaged’ daughter-in-law be exchanged for her sister.” The country imprisons non-virgins “for adultery.”
“In some cases, a bride’s ears and nose are cut off,” she explained. “They are forced into dirty clothes and taken back to her parent’s home. Their heads are shaved. The bride’s family is told that she is not a virgin. Other times, a bride is simply killed and her body is returned to her parents.”
An Afghan law passed in 2013 allows the government to stone to death anyone guilty of adultery. Rohullah Qarizada, a member of the Sharia Islamic law committee, said there must be four witnesses in order for a couple to receive the stoning. Human rights groups could not believe the Afghanistan government would bring back the punishment after Taliban rule regularly executed couples in public for allegedly having premarital sex.
“It is absolutely shocking that 12 years after the fall of the Taliban government, the Karzai administration might bring back stoning as a punishment,” stated Brad Adams, Asia director at Human Rights Watch.
The Taliban in the Sozma Qala district stoned to death a couple in September. Then, in October, the Taliban stoned to death a woman only known as Rokhsahana in the Ghor province. The video no longer exists, but outlets said the woman’s “voice grows increasingly loud as she screams from the pain when the rocks strike her body.” Her parents married her to a man against her will, but she decided to elope with another man. The Taliban accused her of having sex out of wedlock. Female Governor Seema Joyenda spoke out against the stoning.
However, only a month before the stoning, Joyenda’s government approved the sentenceof 100 lashes against a couple who allegedly engaged in premarital sex. An Afghan judge whipped the man and woman in public in Ghor.
“They had relations a long time ago but were arrested early this month,” explained a spokesman for Joyenda. “Their punishment is based on Sharia law and will teach others a lesson.”
A man and his girlfriend received 100 lashes for premarital sex in November 2014. A court sentenced the couple, aged 19 and 21, after a trial in the Kohistan region.
“The punishment was applied to both in accordance with the rules of Islamic Sharia law, because they are of legal age to be punished,” said Governor Mohamed Osman Haqyar Ahmadi in an attempt to justify the penalty.
If the government does not intervene, the woman also faces severe punishment from her family and husband.
“The existing culture among some families is that a ruined girl is given back to her family,”clarified Mariam Zurmati, a commissioner at the Afghan Independent Human Rights Commission. “In order to escape dishonor, that family will offer another of their daughters for marriage. In some regions, women are simply killed. In some cases, even after years of marriage, a husband will abuse his wife.”
Not all women bleed after their first sexual encounter, though it is commonly believed they should in Afghanistan.
“I have a sister who didn’t bleed when she got married,” said a woman only knows as Marzia. “Her husband beats her and she has bruises everywhere. Even after years of living together, he still abuses her and tells her she has been tarnished.”
Some families do not want to wait for the wedding night for proof. These families force the females to undergo invasive and unreliable virginity tests.
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